I'm 20 and she is in her 30's. I met her through Facebook. (Don't worry about her being a fake, I have proved that she is not.) We messaged back and forth and I told her I visit her city for a month once a year and asked her any good places she might know. She said "We can see some new places together and I can learn at the same time!", suggesting we meet when I arrive there.

Then she asks what my expectations are. I reply to her that I am not looking for a long term thing and I would like to have some "fun" and excitement with no strings attached. Here is her reply:

"Hi! In fact, I was very surprised at what you wrote. With asking your expectations, I entirely meant your expectations out of the holiday and how I can help you spend a good time. I have never looked at it that way until you told me so. I replied to your mails sincerely, thinking of you as a friend coming here for holiday. I don't think I gave the wrong impression. I rather like to talk about these things face to face instead of a biased opinion from e-mails. Actually, there is not much I can tell you about the experience things you mentioned. When you visit, I will help you spend a good time with all my effort.

I guess I answered very seriously :P Anyway, you come here and we can talk more... Because you left all the plan to me, a bad holiday awaits you! :P"

From her message, I can see that her intentions are purely friendly. However, I always beleive that actions speak louder than words. I take her words for granted but I also realize that she is leaving an open door by still welcoming me, knowing my intentions and expectations. Maybe she has never thought about it but I might have planted the seeds in her mind, making her think about it until she sees me and also after she meets me in person. I am still willing to give it a try.

I would like to take your opinions on how to proceed and help me lead things to bed.

Man, I don't know how you see things that way...
she looked at you in a "friendly" way?? Pleeeeease!!! what do you expect?? you want her to tell you that she's dripping wet just because you've mentioned "excitement and fun" Vs "long term" ???
had she categorized you in the "friend zone", she would have given you hell in her reply.
But again, you have to actually attract her in person when you meet her, in order for you to take things to bed.
never assume that some fun conversations on Facebook or MSN can attract her enough for you to pick up from there and go on, you have to do it almost from scratch, with the advantage that you know a bit more about her, than you would have normally known.
and since she's a bit older than you, I suggest you bring out the naughty girl in her, and have her feel like she's the naughty experienced one who's re-living her naughty young days, and corrupting you (the innocent bad boy.. lol).

Good luck
Max

go close her she wants perhaps she has masturbated about you a million times now go and turn her dream and fantasies to reality!!

I have an update: I met her last night. I used C&F. She usually mentioned the C part about me while she was laughing at them. She was not turned off by the cockiness so I hope it was accomplished. I kinoed her, touched her hand, did palm reading, touched her lower back and she did not resist.

Her bitch shield was all up! When we were talking about how she decided to meet me, she brought up the mail I sent her about having nsa fun. She said she was afraid of it when she read it for the first time. She said she had problems trusting people. She even asked her friend about it. Then she said she replied to it ignoring the nsa part and agreed to meet me anyway. She said it was natural for me to ask such a thing because of my youth hormones. I acted like it was no deal to me, I said I only offered that as an option, not a requirement to meet. I also mentioned several times in our conversation that we were friends and I made a tease about being interested in guys. I thinks she enjoyed it because she was making jokes about male tourists throwing seductive looks at me when they were passing by!

She also said maybe she might have wanted to do it with me naturally, if I hadn't mentioned it on that e-mail. I took this last thing as a clue that she might be open to it in the future.

We had a talk about being sexually comfortable within and she admitted that she has no problems expressing herself sexually, wearing high heels and mini skirts. She said "It's all about people around who make woman look like sluts.".

By the way, I learned that she is living with her parents so with her parents at home, it wouldn't happen anyway because of logistics. I can't take her to my place because the relatives I am visiting are almost always at home.

She is planning to cook for me next week at her house. I guess that her parents will be away. What are some good ways to seduce her into having sex with me and overcome any bitch shield? I am planning to play the questions game, asking sexual questions in a way that would make her more comfortable with me sexually. Maybe that might make her horny. Any thoughts?

we dont care what a great profound fucking idea you have fuck her and respect her is all that matters!